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Katrina Rainsong- 
the Good love project
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  • Coaching
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  • Safer Sex Hub

EROTIC LIFE COACHING FOR SINGLES, COUPLES, & POLYCULES

A judgement-free space for your curiosity! Explore desire, communication, and intimacy with an erotic philosopher to guide you.


Ready to level up your love life?!

Book a Free Discovery Call

Learn How Coaching Works

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Coaching may be a good fit if you…

  • Feel curious about sex, pleasure, or kink but don’t know where to start
     
  • Want to talk about sex without shame or pressure


  • Feel inspired tor try something new and would like support in exploring
     
  • Struggle to name desires, boundaries, or needs
     
  • Want more connection with a partner or partners
     
  • Are navigating non-monogamy or relationship changes
     
  • Feel “behind” and want supportive guidance


Many of my clients come in feeling a little nervous, and that’s completely okay.

What we can explore together

  • Sexual communication, consent  and attunement
     
  • Desire, arousal, and pleasure mapping
     
  • Navigating differences in libido or interests
     
  • Exploring kink or power dynamics safely
     
  • Rebuilding intimacy after change or rupture
     
  • Increasing bedroom (or dungeon) confidence with new techniques


Sessions are collaborative and always led by your goals.

What is erotic life coaching?

Coaching IS:


  • Present-focused and goal-oriented


  • Educational and skill-building


  • Collaborative and consent-based


  • Grounded in curiosity and choice


Coaching is NOT:


  • Therapy or mental health treatment


  • Diagnosis or trauma processing


  • Explicit sexual activity


If something comes up that’s outside the scope of coaching, I’ll name that with care and integrity.

What to expect

  • Sessions are confidential and private
     
  • Available for individuals, couples, and polycules
     
  • Held online or in-person (if applicable)
     
  • You set the pace and depth
     
  • Consent and check-ins are part of every session


You’re always welcome to pause, redirect, or ask questions.

Coaching packages & Pricing

Clear options, chosen together

I offer several ways to work together, depending on your goals, capacity, and level of support you’re looking for.

Most clients begin with a free connection call, where we talk through what you want help with and decide together what option feels like the best fit. There’s no pressure to commit.


You’re never expected to know which package you want before we talk.


Economic Equity Statement: You deserve to invest in yourself. Ask me about my sliding scale for coaching rates 

Option 1: Single Coaching Session

Best for:

  • Trying coaching for the first time
  • Working through a specific question or situation
  • Returning clients who want occasional support
     

What’s included:

  • One 60 minute coaching session
  • Consent check-ins and clear session goals
  • Practical tools you can use right away


Investment $300 in-person/$150 virtual per session

Available for direct booking for returning clients. New clients are encouraged to start with a connection call.

Option 2: Multi-Session Package

Best for:

  • Building confidence over time
  • Improving communication with a partner or partners
  • Exploring specific topics (i.e. desire, kink, relationship styles) at a sustainable pace
     

What’s included:

  • 5  60-minute coaching sessions
  • Ongoing support between sessions (if applicable)
  • Space to go deeper while staying grounded
     

Investment: $1200 in-person/ 600 virtual (payment plans available)

This option offers continuity and support without rushing the process.

Option 3: Deep Dive/ Good Love School

Best for:


  • Couples or polycules navigating change
  • Folks wanting ongoing guidance and accountability
  • Long-term exploration or integration


What’s included:


  • 9-18 sessions over 3-6 months
  • Session focus is curated to your needs and goals
  • Priority scheduling
  • Async support between sessions, tailored to your evolving needs 


Investment: Rates vary by package


This option is only offered after a connection call to ensure it’s supportive and appropriate.

Not sure which option is right?

That’s completely normal. The easiest way to begin is with a free connection call. We’ll talk about what you’re looking for, answer any questions, and see if working together feels like a good fit.

Book Your Free Connection Call

Already worked with me?

Book your session here.

Not sure coaching is the right next step?

Check out my self-paced 30 Days Shame Free Guided Journal.
 

Useful as:

  • Prep for coaching
     
  • A way to test resonance with The Good Love approach
     
  • Support between sessions

What Clients Are Saying:

Thank You!

Highly Recommend Katrina

A kink angel!

I contacted Kat to learn more about PMDD, PME, and hormonal health. She has a wealth of knowledge and lived experience to share and responded thoughtfully to all my questions. I felt safe and in a nonjudgmental space (definitely not the experience I had talking to my doctors!) and I left our consultation with concrete steps to take as well as a sense of hope. Thank you so much!

- L.D.  09/15/2026

A kink angel!

Highly Recommend Katrina

A kink angel!

She [Kat] crafted a Basics of Impact Play for my partner and I, adapting it to our precise desires, skill levels, and relational dynamics.  She was so warm, kind and approachable as well as provocative and edgey – embodying both a softness and an inspiring dominant power. We truly felt cared for in our lesson and left singing her praises. Book some time with her, you’ll love it!

- M.H. 11/23/2025

Highly Recommend Katrina

Highly Recommend Katrina

Highly Recommend Katrina

Kat's commitment to delivering
accurate, up-to-date information
is truly impressive.

- V 11/14/2023

Great listener

Making A Better World

Highly Recommend Katrina

Started coaching sessions with
Kat yesterday and I am floored by
their capacity to listen and understand.

- W.B. 04/07/2020

Making A Better World

Making A Better World

Making A Better World

Good people from all walks of
life, supporting love and
understanding for a better world.

- R.D. 06/05/2016

Lovely Reminders

Making A Better World

Making A Better World

You are so lovely, luscious and a gorgeous conjuring reminder to me of loving myself. Thank you for being out loud and holding and expressing the healing energy of Pussy, Love and Light!!! Reminding me to physically love myself ❤️

- M.B. 09/15/2015

Meet Katrina (they/them)

Katrina (They/Them)

I bring together years of experience as a Certified Holistic Sex Educator™, Life coach, and facilitator. My work is grounded in consent, accessibility, and the belief that anyone can be a good lover and everyone deserves good loving.

Learn More about Kat's Work

Frequently Asked Questions

Please reach out at goodloveproject@gmail.com if you cannot find an answer to your question.

I am an ISEE Certified Holistic Sex Educator™ and received my Life Coach certification through Transformation Academy. I trained in mind-body wellness practices including Yoga, meditation, and massage at Southwest Institute of Healing Arts. Beyond academics, I have over two decades of study and lived experience in Kink, BDSM, Polyamory/ENM, Paganism and Sacred Sexuality.


Yes, I offer both in-person and virtual coaching sessions to accommodate the needs and preferences of my clients. In-person service area includes Denver and Boulder.


The frequency of coaching sessions depends on the individual and their goals. Some clients prefer to meet weekly, while others may meet bi-weekly or monthly.


I support singles, couples and polycules (group relationships).


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