Meet The Good Lovers

I’m Katrina “Good Love Kat” Rainsong — a Black-Biracial, Queer, Nonbinary, Disabled, Neurodivergent, Pagan Femme who has dedicated my life to creating space for sexual freedom, joy, and authenticity.

Growing up, I often felt unheard by partners and healthcare professionals, and found myself holding space for friends feeling disconnected from their own bodies. This fueled my belief that facts dissolve fear and truth dismantles shame. I set out to break cycles of disempowerment through education, experience, and radical self-expression.

Over the years, I’ve worn many hats — from stripper and birth doula to dominatrix and circus performer — all of which deepened my understanding of pleasure, consent, and embodiment.

Since 2014, with The Good Love Project, I’ve traveled across the country and beyond, teaching workshops and facilitating conversations that center informed, enthusiastic consent, shame-free pleasure, and authentic connection. I am an ISEE-Certified Holistic Sex Educator™ and Erotic Life Coach, and a proud member of the kink and polyamory communities.

My work is trauma-aware, joy-forward, and based in the belief that everyone deserves to explore their sexuality on their own terms — free from shame and full of curiosity. I especially love working with folks who share intersecting identities like mine, as well as the people who love and support them.

Simply put:
I help curious and brave adults unlearn misinformation and self-limiting beliefs so they can step fully into their authentic erotic selves — with ease, joy, and confidence. My approach is an integration of mind-body-spirit, and rooted in self-knowledge as liberation  — helping you shed old stories and step into your most vibrant self.

This work isn’t just about techniques or knowledge; it’s about reclaiming your power and rewriting your story on your terms.

• Create playful, powerful, and positive sex and relationship education experiences.
   
• Dismantle erotophobia, sex-negativity, and stigma with evidence-based, accessible coaching.
   
• Support adults’ personal growth, erotic empowerment, and authentic relationships.
   
• Heal shame through knowledge, truth, and acceptance.